Sunday, January 22, 2006

Pegging (But he's str8, right?)

Yeah. Right. My friend, Spiderman and I, were just talking today about str8 boys who proclaim their heterosexuality all the while they are blowing your back out. Tonight while looking at "top" and "bottom" in wikipedia, I encountered this:

Pegging (sexual practice)
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia.


A woman pegging a man doggy-style with a 4-strap harness and dildo, using the corner of the bed to adjust the height to that most comfortable for penetration
Pegging is a neologism invented in 2001 that describes a form of anal sex where a female uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate a heterosexual male's anus. This practice may be legally prohibited in places that have sodomy laws.
The origin of the term was a winning entry in a June 21, 2001 contest in Dan Savage's Savage Love sex advice column. In the column, it was a specifically heterosexual term; the competition was held after an observation was made that there was no common name for the practice of females penetrating heterosexual men with a dildo.

(Ok, now. Lemme get this straight. If a man gets penetrated with a strap-on dildo, he's still straight because a woman is doing it? Gimme a break!)

Shem hotep.

4 comments:

Bernie said...

Now, now. Gay men aren't the only one's to engage in or enjoy anal sex. Straight women also do it, I don't see anyone casting aspersions on them.

If we want people to stop seeing our sexual expression as deviant or perverted, then we can't engage in the same practice with theirs. Ultimately it is about opening one's mind (and other parts) to new ways of receiving pleasure. Let's not be closed minded when people open theirs.

W A T E R said...

hmmmmmmm.

Vcat said...

It not the sexual act itself that makes you gay or straight. It's about desire--who you want the sex to be with. As humans, our bodies are ready to receive pleasure in all kinds of ways; equating a sex act to a specific sexual orientation restricts too many people from doing things that they would find enjoyable.

Anonymous said...

I'm heterosexual and I have absolutely no desire to be with another man. For years my wife has been suggesting,in fact, begging that I let her use a strapon on me. I have been adamantly against this because of my belief that this would be a gay practice, and quite frankly, It wasn't anything I wanted to try. About a year ago, she started sending me emails with information that she had downloaded from the web. (My job requires a lot of travel) Much of it was information on the practice itself, and any bit of information she could locate indicating that this activity did not define ones gender. Last month, we came home from a party, we weren't drunk but we were a little uninhibited. We made love and she followed our lovemaking with a massage. While massaging me, she began working the massage oil around my anus and then into to it. She did this for about twenty minutes. I was surprized at how good this felt. She got up to get a thicker lubricant and came back into the room wearing a strapon. Mentally, I said what the hell. She got behind me and started working the lube into my ass with her finger. A few minutes later she slowly began pushing the dildo in my ass. As it moved passed my prostrate the sinsation was mind blowing. She began to push in and out very slowly. This was the real surprize. The feeling just inside my sphincter was indescribable. I couldn't believe how good this was feeling. All the while, my mind was really fucking with me. What did it mean that I was enjoying this? This act that was so homosexual to me before. Even after all the information I had been reading, it still took me a while to come to grips with what I just allowed to happen. My wife was totally into it. I think more than the stimulation her clit was getting, the visual just sent her over the top. It has been about a month since we tried this and I am completely okay with what happened. It was just great sex with my wife. Not unlike vaginal, anal or oral sex. I was just the recipient of some intense pleasure. After this experience I am no closer to wanting to be with a man than I was before it happened. Those of you who think strapon sex is an aberration, should give it a try. You just might transcend some gender-based ignorance.